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Valerie Rose (Elward) Friend

July 16, 1976 ~ July 1, 2021 (age 44)


Valerie Rose Friend, 44, of Columbia City, passed away on July 1, 2021, at Parkview Hospital in Fort Wayne.

She was born in Fort Wayne, on July 16, 1976, to Robert and Marsha (Wafer) Elward. She spent her formative years in Allen County, graduating from Carroll High School in 1995.

Valerie was married to Cory Friend at Immaculate Conception Church, on August 18, 2001, and together they raised a son and a daughter.

Throughout her life she had several jobs, working at USSI, Churubusco Child Care Center, and as a teacher's aide at Coesse Elementary School most recently. Valerie was a dedicated, supportive, and loving wife, mother, sister, and friend. She enjoyed spending time with her family and friends, as well as with her two Labrador Retrievers, Emmie and Finn. She also liked to read and visit beaches, especially Myrtle Beach, South Carolina and Cancun, Mexico. Valerie will be missed but never forgotten by her many loved ones. 

Valerie courageously battled two bouts of breast cancer, remaining strong and loving throughout her illnesses.

Valerie is survived by her husband of 19 years, Cory Friend; her father, Robert (Joyce Anderson) Elward; her son, Logan Friend; her daughter; Ava Friend; two sisters, Kimberly Petty and Shannon (Daniel Kercher) Elward; her father-in-law, Thomas (Sonya) Friend; her mother-in-law, Karen (Tony) Barry; her sister-in-law, Christi (Scott) Elsten; two nieces, Mackenzie Petty and Addison Elsten; two nephews, Kaiden Petty and Ryan Elsten.

She was preceded in death by her mother, Marsha Elward, and her grandparents.

Mass of Christian Burial will take place at Immaculate Conception Church, Ege on July 6, 2021, at 11:00 a.m., with calling at the Funeral Home from 10:00 to 10:30 a.m.
The family will also receive friends at Sheets & Childs Funeral, Churubusco Chapel, on Monday, July 5, 2021, from 2:00 to 7:00 p.m.

Burial taking place at Ege Catholic Cemetery, Ege.

For those who wish, memorials may be made to Cancer Services of Northeast Indiana.

Leave a personal note to the family via the online guestbook at www.sheetsandchilds.com.

To send flowers to Valerie's family, please visit our floral store.


Public Viewing
July 5, 2021

2:00 PM to 7:00 PM
Sheets & Childs Funeral Home - Churubusco
206 North Main Street
Churubusco, IN 46723

Public Viewing
July 6, 2021

10:00 AM to 10:30 AM
Sheets & Childs Funeral Home - Churubusco
206 North Main Street
Churubusco, IN 46723

Mass of Christian Burial
July 6, 2021

11:00 AM
Immaculate Conception Catholic Church of Ege
7046 E 400 S
Laotto, IN 46763

Interment following funeral service
July 6, 2021

Ege Catholic Cemetery
7340 East County Road 400 South (just east of Ege)
LaOtto, IN 46763


Cancer Services of Northeast Indiana
6316 Mutual Drive, Fort Wayne IN 46825
Tel: 1-260-484-9560

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